About Wholistic Kink
At Wholistic Kink, we are devoted to conscious kink exploration as a means to become more whole, more confident, more expressed, and more embodied and responsible with our power.
We’ve found the best way to transmit what we do is through demos and performance. Our personal practice of Wholistic Kink blends traditional BDSM play with principles of performance art and psychospiritual development, using our core value system as described through our IMPACT framework.
We offer both planned and improvised scenes, which can be tailored to you/your group’s specific needs and desires. We then follow the scene with a Q&A and discussion segment, to break it down and give context for what people just witnessed. We’ve found this to be the most efficient and effective way to illuminate what is possible through kink play.
If you would like to hire us to bring our magic to your event or gathering, you can find more information here.
If you would like a deeper introduction to the core principles of our IMPACT framework, so you can get a sense of the components we demo and teach in our kink scenes, you can access our self-paced course here.
If you have an event in mind you would like to hire us for, you can reach out to schedule a free consultation through our application here.
We are also versed in group facilitation, teaching, and hands on kink sessions for individuals and couples, should participants want to deepen their integration through guided, embodied experiences, practice, and coaching.
Additionally, our signature event, IMPACT!, is a kink inspired dance party and playground for the senses. This is an invite only event that you can find out about and apply to attend, by joining our mailing list.
Liberation wrapped in a harness.
An expansion of possibility where adult play, exploration and healing can have space to exist together. A world where you can practice living into different ways of being through role play, negotiation, and curiosity. An energy, a state of mind and a way of life. Medicine for the soul to grow, mend and express. Where we can unleash parts of our hearts that have never been given permission to exist. A movement and a mission.
Liberation wrapped in a harness. The suspension of time. A turn on. A recalibration of self, connection and desire. A way to deepen our pleasure through surrender and power exchange. Co-creative prayer. Permission itself. An invitation for greater levels of authentic expression that can remind us what it means to be alive. A way back to our bodies and forward to the truth.
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Kyle Lovett
Educator & Pro Switch
I have over 10 years of experience in the realms of opening relating, lifestyle kink exploration and recovery from alcoholism/co-dependency and the spiritual new age waters. I now have a wealth of experience, knowledge and skills to support people on their path.
I am a bridge between many worlds that don’t always cross over and it’s my greatest honor to be the person who supports the separation in the culture of the communities to start to come together. This all starts within self exploration and self love. That is ultimately what I support whether that’s 1:1 or through publicly speaking about my experience, strength and hope.
Recovery, authentic creative expression and kink have been the three pillars to my own healing and it's my honor to educate, share stories and empower people through these topics. Unwinding shame, authentically being who you are without reserve and communicating to yourself and others how you choose to live your life are a few of the ways I support the collective.
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Ashley Berry
Educator & Pro Domme
After nearly two decades of working and playing the realms of transformation, personal growth, altered states of consciousness, and traditional healing arts, I found my way to conscious kink as a framework for personal development, empowerment, healing, pleasure and FUN.
If you had asked me 10 years ago if I would have a thriving career as a professional dominatrix, kink educator, and mentor to aspiring kink professionals, I would not have believed you. And yet, within 6 months of stepping across the threshold of this potent and ancient role, I knew my soul had found a calling.
Conscious kink, or as we call our particular approach, Wholistic Kink, is an amalgamation of BDSM and kink with a plethora of healing and expressive arts modalities. It is the most expansive and all encompassing container I have found to encounter and reclaim necessary parts of my own whole self, with an attitude of curiosity, play, and radical acceptance.